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I don’t understand why!

These few days, I always wonder why. Why can’t we show our care when we want to know how the person is? Why can’t we show when we really miss the person? Why we can’t do whatever we think is right and go ahead with it? Why can’t we just follow our feeling to do something but have to control it? Why can’t we cry when we want to but have to control it? Why can’t we show when we feel sad? Sometimes maybe we have to show our pro or we don’t want people around to worry of us. Why always we have to show the other side of ours to the people around u? Why and I wonder why….. I hope people around me are fine.

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2 Responses to “I don’t understand why!”

  1. Where am I? Says:
    May 28th, 2008 at 2:33 am

    1)Why can’t we show our care when we want to know how the person is?
    2)Why can’t we show when we really miss the person?
    Do they want to?
    Do u always see or contact them?
    Because you dont dare to show, because u feel scared about the effect of…..
    Define the words ‘communication’ and ‘action”
    . People tend to perceive other as same as what they are. People are not mind readers!!!
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    3)Why we can’t do whatever we think is right and go ahead with it?
    There are 3 things in your mind when making dicesions. (a)moral’adult’ (b)feeling’children’ (c)a balancer’you’. When A and B agree what u are doing, you feel happy with it- mean C. However, when
    A feels sth is not right to do, you find guity, u may not do it. When B has a conflic with C, you feel anxious- you are fighting with your feeling. U ARE STILL THINKING IT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE BY THE SOCIETY.
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    4)Why can’t we just follow our feeling to do something but have to control it?
    What kind of the societies are u living in?
    As the previous answer too.
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    5)Why can’t we cry when we want to but have to control it?
    There is a place called ‘Tanjung Rambutan” where people can cry and luagh without a reason. if you dont want to give the reason, dont cry….. otherwise…….
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    6)Why can’t we show when we feel sad?
    Sometimes maybe we have to show our pro or we don’t want people around to worry of us.
    Please define the words ‘friend’, ‘friendship’ and ‘love’.
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    7)Why always we have to show the other side of ours to the people around u?
    It is nature, there is sth called ‘face’(self presenting)- the way u want to appear in the society. Do u behave, think or communicate in the same way as your parents, friends, teachers, customers and your superiors?
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    Summary
    THINK TOO MUCH!!!Therefore, it has become too complicated. LIFE IS SIMPLE!!!

    OUR MISSIONS ARE TO ADEPT OUERSELF INTO THE CHANGING SOCIETY- effected by technology, population, pollution and so on……

  2. Where am I? Says:
    May 28th, 2008 at 4:40 am

    correction!

    7)Why always we have to show ………..

    ……….Do u behave, think or communicate in the same way with your……

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